Tuesday, April 30, 2013

Homeward Bound

It's not just the name of a fabulous movie from my childhood - that I knew verbatim - but it's also my directional course this coming summer. 

HOME!

I'm going home!
(via a bunch of stops in between)



I'll be Stateside for just under a month.  Making stops in several places - seeing family and friends and squeezing a little bit of adventure out of America!

There will be a trip up to the Land of 10,000 Lakes, a few days out west in the Golden State, and then Say WA! I'll be making my first trip to the Pacific Northwest.  All before coming back to Korea.  Phew!


In total I'll be air bound 10 different times - crossing the ocean, plains and mountains - to get home and see people that I love and a place I haven't been to in over a year.  But it will be worth it!

So mark it in your calendars everyone!  
I'll be home in 2 months!  
Get ready! 
^^

Wednesday, April 24, 2013

Anne smiled and said, "My idea of good company, Mr. Elliot, is the company of clever, well-informed people, who have a great deal of conversation; that is what I call good company." "You are mistaken," said he gently, "that is not good company; that is the best."
-Jane Austen, Persuasion

Tuesday, April 23, 2013

Right now I'm...

1. Reading… "Persuasion" by Jane Austen

2. Following… the boys of Big Bang (@IBGDRGN, @Realtaeyang, @ForvictoRi, @topofbb)

3. Saving for… upcoming trips - home and TokyoDisney

4. Obsessed with… Game of Thrones and Black Dagger Brotherhood*

5. Busy doing… drying my hair

6. Outraged by… the weather - rain is the worst

7. Clicking on… The Beauty Department

8. Wearing… a hoodie and leggings - it's bedtime on my side of the world

9. Thinking about… midterms and getting all my lessons covered before my students' test day

10. Excited about… a few days off in the next coming weeks and the day trips I have planned**




*I have been telling every female I know to read this series!  And only some have taken me up on it.  The rest are fools!  But they friends who have started reading it are sharing with me how much they are liking/loving them and it is driving me mad to re-read them.  But I can't abandon Ms. Austen.  I just need her to get over the verbose, superabundant, wordy text so I can get back to the humping! 
**May 1 - Labor Day - going to SpaLand
**May 17 - Buddha's Birthday - going paragliding

Monday, April 22, 2013

Happiness


That is how I feel about today!! 
Best. Day. Ever!  

Why is today the best?  What has made it better than any of the other days this week, month, year so far!?*

Because today we booked our flight to Japan! ^^
And I know.
You're right.
I've already been there.
Twice.**


So why is this time so special that today is the best ever?!

BECAUSE WE ARE GOING TO GO TO TOKYO DISNEYLAND!!!!!!


Sure.  I'm 27.  Nearly an adult for all intensive purposes.  
But I don't care. 
I'm soooo excited!!

 Most people my age are this chump on the left, but I'm like the little old pops on the right! 
Happy and eager and ready to go!!


Who am I kidding.  I'm more like this..


 It's just like Wendy said...



Not fan of Disney?!  I don't mind.  There is no raining on my happiness!  


I'm going to the happiest place on Earth!! 



*best day this year, could be a bit of a stretch, but that's ok, because I'm that excited.
**I never blogged about the second trip to Japan.  I should do that one of these days.  

Thursday, April 18, 2013

Vacation Cha-Cha


This is definitely my school.  
Or at least... it is this year.  


Good grief! things have gone all topsy turvy at Daepyung, and I can say it is NOT in the fun way.

A lot of things have changed this year; but with the Korean school system - that is how things work.  Teachers are required to change schools every 4 years, while vice principals, principals and other head administration people change every 2 years.  They say it is to keep any one person from becoming too powerful/influential at a school, but I say it's a bunch of phewy.


Anyways… this year, at my school nearly half the staff changed!  The first couple weeks were disorienting for me - seeing all the new faces and having to figure out who was who and what they were teaching.  However, not much of it effected me.
What did effected me was: a new co-teacher, Jeong eun, and a new vice principal.  

Jeong eun is great!  She is really kind, friendly and willing to help out with all manners of troubles that I have.  The new VP is… he's new.

And being that he's new (both to our school and to the job - yay!... this is his first every job posting as a VP…) he comes across a bit timid and reserved.  That coupled with this persistent need to consult my contract and adhere to every letter of it is driving me ever-loving-mad.

Sure, I will admit that some of the things I have asked him for, I did so (mainly) because in the past, with my old VP, I would have been allowed to do as I wanted and gotten no gripe for it.  So this year, I've asked for things thinking that since the principal is the same - part of that old mantra had to still be around.
Right?  
Noooo, wrong.  So wrong.
It's all gone out the window! and with it some of my sanity and 83.7% of my patience.

Why the correlation to a latin dance?  Because...

With the program I work for, EPIK, when NETs renew their contract for another year - they are given a bonus vacation.  It's 10 days that should be used after the start of the new contract and within the first 6months.  It is encouraged that this bonus vacation be taken in conjunction with a holiday/when school is not in session period of time.  Most NETs take their renewal vacation during Spring Break at the end of February.

  • I had asked my school - back in November of last year - if I could pair my renewal vacation with my summer vacation (8 days) so that I could go back to America for a long period of time.  
  • I asked back in November, because I wanted to make sure all the i's were dotted and t's were crossed to ensure that everything was in order before Mrs. Jang left.  (at that point I had no idea who my new co-teacher was going to be.  And co's can be a real toss-up here.)
  • My VP said yes, my principal said yes - I hugged her - and I told my family and all of Facebook I would be home for a month this coming summer.
And now the dance…

I asked Jeong eun if we could get my vacation dates confirmed this week, so that I could start looking-to-buy a flight home and get things sorted with family and friends as needed.  She was all for it, and on Tuesday (the day of my amazing open class) we asked the VP if he could sign off on my leave.

He said a lot of things in Korean, most of which was not translated to me; but the part I was told was that:
  • I couldn't take that much time off.
  • I couldn't miss school.
  • I had to do camp.
  • It wasn't possible.
  • I couldn't go home.
What I did was cry.  

I was so frustrated from the wasted open class, so tired of the back and forth with my new VP, so over the vacation struggle that I just didn't know what to do.  However, some part of my brain knew what to do >.< and its response was to ever-so-coolly send water running down my face.  Freakin' fantastic.

It was a giant step backwards.  Not only for my summer plans but also for my coolness.

But as Mr. Brault said above, it's a cha-cha.  

And so it was with my school.  Because within a few days, my VP and principal turned around and said I could have the time off and leave on the date that was agree upon back in November.

Good grief indeed!
cha-cha-cha!

Tuesday, April 16, 2013

Always The Same

It's always the case.  
It never changes.  

Open classes.
They're bullshit.

How I've managed to continually get renewed in this country is a surprise, even to me.  

Not because of my teaching skills or work ethic (there I'd like to think highly of myself and say I'm a NET star!), but because our open classes are what the heads of school use to evaluate a teacher and, in the case of NETs, decided if they want to have us stay around for another year.

You might remember me saying before how amazingly, fantastic my previous open classes have gone.  >.<

Sooo… why would I think that my open class this year would be any different?  
Does the expression "third times a charm" ring any bells.

Well I can say, that for NETs open classes - especially in my case - that expression is also bullshit!
What a crock it all is.

Jeong eun (my new co-teacher.  Sorry I just realized I never introduced you all to her!  I will get on that.) and I were down on hands and knees scrubbing the floor of our classroom, mopping and sweeping and wiping down every surface we could get a sponge to in order to make our student-destroyed-classroom look a little bit more presentable.


Jeong eun also made an assortment of extra teaching materials that contributed (greatly) to the overall presentation of our open class.


And what happened?  What did all our overly, unnecessary work mean in the end?
Nothing.  
Not a f#@$ing thing.

Because no one showed up!


I would say my mind is blown.  That I can't believe this happened.  That I'm shocked that no one had the decency to attend our scheduled open class.  That the amount of work and stress that went into this was completely wasted.  That is was just plain rude to be so disregarded in such a manner.  

But I won't.  
Because this is Korea and this is just how things go… for me at least.  :-P

Sunday, April 14, 2013

Nature

I was a Girl Scout for about three years.
Off and on.  
Which really isn't much.  

I sold more boxes of cookies than I earned badges.  I guess that is kind of something; considering most Americans look forward to GS cookies as much as they do Christmas or any sport championship*.
So in that respect - I did well!


Where I didn't do well was the whole nature part of being a GS.
Nature… yeah, it's just really not for me.

But lately I have been trying to "be one with nature" and all that garbage that people say to make being out amongst the trees and dirt and bugs sound nice and fun.  Yay!  Nature…

You will be hell pressed to get me out camping.  A tent.  On the ground.  With more bugs for tent-mates than humans is not anything I would rank high on my list of ever wanting to do.  

Not that hiking is high up on my list of things I want or like to do either, but I've been doing it.  I wouldn't go as far to say I've enjoyed it - but I've been out there trekking up hills, climbing down unstable rock slopes, and taking in the sights that over look Busan. 


It doesn't clear my mind or relax my body, but it works my legs and pumps my lungs.  And that part I do like.


Also, it's a good alternative to being worthless and hungover on the weekend (or in the case of this past weekend - gets you out and working off all the booze you consumed the previous night, but let me digress).  


Plus I get to spend a few hours with my bestie, Michael.  
So the pros and cons cancel out and it's an ok time!


*I do not get excited for sports.  Period.

Saturday, April 13, 2013


Happiness is the consequence of personal effort.  You fight for it, strive for it, insist upon it, and sometimes even travel around the world looking for it.  You have the participate relentlessly in the manifestations of your own blessings.  And once you have achieved a state of happiness, you must never become lax about maintaining it.  You must make a mighty effort to keep swimming upward into that happiness forever, to stay afloat on top of it.
- Elizabeth Gilbert, Eat, Pray, Love